Fake it ’til you make it
Look familiar boys?
I bet when Harry met Sally, he didn’t know he’d learn so much about women’s ability to give our guys a massive ego boost without much effort at all. What I don’t know is, are we doing ourselves a major disservice in the process?
Think about it. Have you ever faked it with a guy?
I’m not wagging a naughty finger at you like it’s a terrible crime you’ve committed. You won’t see the inside of a cell for this one – we women know that if we do do it, it’s only because we’ve been doing the horizontal mamba for too long now and it’s time to wrap things up, or because we’re close and we can tell the poor guys getting tired – we need to give him something for his efforts
– and a gold star just won’t cut the mustard.
No, I’m asking because like you can see in the above clip – woman are very, very capable of pulling that one off no fuss. It’s way easier for us than for men. It’s also a lot easier for men to reach that result legitimately. It’s just the difference in our anatomy I guess.
So – as we skip through our sex lives, faking it, so that our boys don’t feel too down and out – are we actually messing things up for ourselves big time?
They say it’s hard to teach an old dog new tricks. So if he thinks he knows what it takes to get you to your happy place, and he really doesn’t – how is he ever going to learn how to do it?
Communication. That is the key. We females need to learn to be a bit more vocal in what we want. We have no trouble spilling our guts when we feel we’ve been hard done by, or want him to switch to low-carb beer when his belly begins to bulge, but when it comes time to speak up in the boudoir? You could hear a pin drop.
Girls – a word to the wise. Guys may be many, many things. But one thing they’re usually not are quitters. There isn’t a thing in the world that turns a guy on more than seeing that he’s doing everything right. Seeing himself as a sex god – or even better, seeing it written all over your face. Most are more than willing to please, so ladies, take advantage – no matter how long it may take, I tells you, you’ll be grinning like the cat that got the cream for your trouble. Word.
Have you ever faked it?
What was your reasoning?
Do you know you’re making it harder for him to please any girls he may be with in the future by you doing that? Oh, that’s why you do it, isn’t it? You dirty minx.